I've been going through some tough times lately. I've felt like I was drowning. Very often, I felt like sitting in the middle of the floor and doing nothing. . . forever. I wanted to give up on my dreams. But I didn't. I kept going even though I didn't see any end and I learned some life lessons as I went along.
1. Attitude is everything. I know you have heard that saying before. But during my trials, I truly realized attitude is not everything, it is the thing. How you respond to any given situation is a choice which can make you or break you. I decided to have a positive attitude. I reminded daily myself that my trials were temporary and I spoke about them as being temporary to the people I confided in. Because of my attitude, I saw the good side of the trials. My thinking stayed clear. Instead of saying, "I can't do X because of Y", I asked myself, "How can I get X done?" This question caused me to think out-of-the-box and come up with creative solutions to problems. I can't wait to see